After a long time........
May be i wanted more time to be away from everything especially after the mental torture i went through with Mr.A.........
Finally am happy to be free from that traumatic relationship though some traces of memory i still have.........Uhhhhhh I still remember the sleepless nights i spent,the rejection and insult shown coz of being "skinny",criticism for leading a carefree life of my own,for having my own principles and my stubborness to change those just for one person and ofcourse the less support of parents for being "a girl" born in an "Indian" "middleclass" family. Though i have to admit sooner or later i got my parental support:))))))) which made me more happier.......
Right now, at this point of time, am more happier for two important reasons i) finding the right kind of person i was searching for ii) breaking up with the most possessive person i have ever seen in this world....
Ofcourse i have got my right person and am very sure of it now (i hope so...just crossing my fingers)........
Though an "arranaged" marriage as people call it still no regrets as i liked him......
Just yesterday i happen to read my colleague's blog (new colleague from Hungary who's started working as a volunteer in our institution) in which she has expressed her complete curiosity and shock about the Indian type of "arranged" or "fixed" marriages.....May be i can completey understand her culture shock but at the same time she has also mentioned in her blog about the hard realities Western people face in the name of "dating" or " love marriages" or "live-in relationships"- that every second marriage ends up in a divorce or every third pregnancy ends up in an abortion!!!!!!!!!!!
So whats better.....An Indian "arranged marriage with its hard core compromises.......or the Western style marriages in which u try to match everything beforehand and still your relationship ends up in divorce..........Hmmmmmmmm thats really tricky
So am still confused with these two ideas of arranged marriage and love marriage.......n ofcourse both of them have their own advantages and disadvantages......
Ok got to rush........
